Friday, February 8, 2008

Doubts & Logic

I was thinking about the things I've always wanted in a man and realized, "I can't be with him. He'll never fit into that description of what I want." I want a guy...

Who's going to sweep me off my feet.
Who likes all the music I like and sings to me.
Who buys me stuff and sends me roses at work.
Who can't get enough of me. (well, he's got that one down so far.)
Who takes me out on real dates no matter how long we've been together.

Who appreciates a little old school when it comes to taking a girl out... TGIFridays and a movie are ok, but if you really want to impress me you better be dressing sharp, showing up with flowers, and making a reservation for dinner because that's the way to court a lady.

Who makes me feel like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman. (No...not like a hooker! Girls know what I'm talking about... like you've gone from rags to riches...more like Cinderella.)

Who will watch The Notebook with me.
Who wants to try new things with me.
Who likes to do the things I like to do.
Who sends me sweet text messages.
Who knows how to keep me happy.
Who wants to slow dance with me.
Who wants to travel together.
Who wants to cook for me.

The list goes on... I'm sure there are a lot of things on the list that he does fit into. But what about the rest? Do I just forget about the rest if the love is strong enough? Sometimes I think I'll never find the one who fits my perfect description. Its understandable...that's a lot to expect. But I'm a dreamer. I should be able to have exactly what I want now and then learn to love the rest later, right? While I'm young I should have passion and an amazing relationship. Its funny how I am constantly changing this list of what I want. I have lists from several years ago with my last boyfriend, and then with my fiance... I found this website that makes fun of that. It totally reminded me of myself. I think if I include all the things on that list now, I should be able to find someone who will last. haha..

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